It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.
The way you perceive yourself is the way your surroundings sees you. In other words don’t put yourself down or point out flaws and shortcomings. If you don’t notice it, nobody around you does.
It is a truth generally known that men are not the most perceptive species on Earth. Therefore do not make it easier for them to notice tiny, irrelevant details about yourself. Think of the first date and the courting period like an extended job interview. You can make good impression only once. You want to ‘sell’ yourself in the best way possible for the best price possible.
And no, the price is not negotiable, you take what you get and the man has to thank gods that a beautiful and perfect creature like yourself is interested in him and allows him to bask in her fabulous company.
Wouldn’t you agree Dear Ladies?